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a blog is a blog

Posted in downhill biking, emotions by xadness on December 10, 2008

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So yeah, a dilemma…

When I first starting writing this blog, nobody knew about it and I wrote my little heart out; it could be about people I knew, feelings I had or the occasional one night stand.

Then… people started reading it and I met up with some other bloggers and little by little my blog alias became my alias on social networks and like the word SOCIAL implies, you are ’social’ meaning your friends are on it, you make new friends etc.

Long story short:

XADNESS is not anonymous anymore and I really wanna write how I feel, what shameful things I have been up to and whose neck/ throat I wanna squeeze ’till the eyes pop out [I am serious]. I also wanna write about that one guy I met, the other guy that I fancied and all the other stuff I have been fantasizing about.

Unfortunately, I am scared that some people might get hurt or offended… or maybe even pretty upset with me and really, I hate conflicts and I wouldn’t hurt anyone on purpose and this blog, well… it’s just a blog…

So what am I to do? Sensor it? Create another blog??

f*ck it. I am gonna go for it.

I hereby wanna apologize if I might hurt anyone’s feelings. I am sorry.

no…. really

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  1. DutchBitch said, on December 11, 2008 at 1:23 am

    Hon, Go for it! It’s your life and your blog! Can I still read it? ;-)

  2. Huckleberry Hart said, on December 11, 2008 at 7:50 pm

    Stay strong sister, go for the throat and don’t look back. But if you do look back, you will see us, because we got yr back. Nobody will front.

  3. xadness said, on December 11, 2008 at 8:07 pm

    @ DutchBitch

    Girl you are freakin’ awesome! You can read it ANYTIME …

    You still coming over in Summer??

    @Huckleberry Hart!

    Thanks! I love you guys! [can I crash your couch one of these weeks?? haha]

  4. Bryan said, on December 11, 2008 at 10:35 pm

    I started reading because you were a woman who went snowboarding and wrote about her experiences. For me your blog is frank and upfront travel journalism. I like your stories, both on and off the snow. I could see how losing your anonymity might present a challenge. You’ve got my support though. Do your thing!

  5. DutchBitch said, on December 12, 2008 at 5:46 am

    Nah… The Chief pulled the plug on my US trip. I am still f.u.r.i.o.u.s. about it… steamin’…
    I can’t afford it from my personal budget right now but I am keeping it in mind for the future!!!

  6. Angry Snowboarder said, on December 16, 2008 at 9:03 pm

    Be yourself and you’ll learn who you truly need in your life and who wasn’t meant to be.

  7. Eiso said, on December 18, 2008 at 10:45 am

    Awesome attitude! Live it! Write it! Don’t regret it!

    Eiso


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